A and B meet. A behaves like this to B, causing a "first impression". However, C a long term knower of A says A behaves like that to everyone.
Should B:
1) Continue with existing preception of it's relationship with A
2) Augment it's perception of A based on new information from reliable source C.
I personally pick option 1. Although C may seem to know A longer, his information is not useful in the relationship between A and B. What C says could be trusted information or it could be gossip or it could be C's augmented perception of A which C believes to be true. In the case of such uncertainty I'd find it safer to trust my own perceptions and discard C's information rather then act upon it.
Option 2 seems somewhat more the popular option, especially when discussing negative behaviour. Since A is like that to everyone, B should cut A some slack, A could be a nice person still. Notice it doesn't work as well with positive behaviour though, nobody says a bubbly person isn't bubbly because she (only she's can be bubbly i think) is bubbly all the time.
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Apparently after long discussion with D we can conclude that option 2 should follow soemthing like this:
B perception of A, X, and C perception of A, Y, should be augmented considering A perception of C,I, to develop a final perception value of A to B, Z. To such effect as determined by one's personal weight function.
Should B:
1) Continue with existing preception of it's relationship with A
2) Augment it's perception of A based on new information from reliable source C.
I personally pick option 1. Although C may seem to know A longer, his information is not useful in the relationship between A and B. What C says could be trusted information or it could be gossip or it could be C's augmented perception of A which C believes to be true. In the case of such uncertainty I'd find it safer to trust my own perceptions and discard C's information rather then act upon it.
Option 2 seems somewhat more the popular option, especially when discussing negative behaviour. Since A is like that to everyone, B should cut A some slack, A could be a nice person still. Notice it doesn't work as well with positive behaviour though, nobody says a bubbly person isn't bubbly because she (only she's can be bubbly i think) is bubbly all the time.
Apparently after long discussion with D we can conclude that option 2 should follow soemthing like this:
B perception of A, X, and C perception of A, Y, should be augmented considering A perception of C,I, to develop a final perception value of A to B, Z. To such effect as determined by one's personal weight function.
3 Comments:
I really want to understand this...but I think you need to give variables for the types of behaviour.....
it's not really about the behaviour though, its more about how an external party changes ure perception of another person...
it could be in a good or a bad way...
that's just silly =)
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